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The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

Ask for Help... and Spread Happiness

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

Pushkin Industries

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.6K Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2023

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Jia Jiang dreamed of being the next Bill Gates... but an entrepreneur needs the courage and confidence to ask for help. Jia was terrified of rejection - so couldn't fulfil his ambitions. That is, until he decided to beat his fear by seeking out rejection after rejection for a full 100 days.

Many of us share Jia's nervousness about appearing vulnerable and needy, but the science suggests that we and the people around us would be happier if we asked them for help more often.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

A series of strange and violent deaths rocked Osage County, Oklahoma a century ago.

0:05.7

Sisters Rita, Mini, Anna and their mother Lizzie all left behind lucrative rights to the oil beneath Osage land,

0:12.6

while lawman Tom White was horrified by the chilling plot he uncovered.

0:17.0

Join me, Tim Harford, host of the Corscht Retails Podcast, for my new two-part on the Osage Killings,

0:23.4

the story behind the book and film Killers of the Flower Moon.

0:26.8

Both episodes are available now, wherever you get your podcasts.

0:36.4

Pushkin.

0:45.4

We're in a first-grade classroom in Beijing, China.

0:48.4

It's about 20 years ago, ahead of the annual holidays.

0:51.6

To mark the occasion, a teacher has brought and wrapped presents for her students.

0:55.8

The gifts are stacked up in a corner, ready to be handed out.

0:59.2

And if she's just stopped right there, it would be a great story.

1:02.2

Jia-jian was one of those excited kids.

1:04.9

But she had all of us come to the front of a classroom and said,

1:07.6

Hey, what did you guys say nice things about each other?

1:10.7

If someone calls your name and says something nice about you,

1:13.3

you can go get a gift and sit down.

1:15.1

One by one, the kids started sharing kind words about their classmates.

1:19.2

It was great when he started.

1:20.6

Someone seemed really well, someone was helpful to other teachers,

1:24.0

and I applaud as if we had my turn.

1:26.2

But the flow of compliments soon slowed down,

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