Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast. I'm your co-host, Christina Dodson. This is an Ask

Dr. Kim segment where people submit their questions for Dr. Kim Kim, and he answers them.

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Today is an Ask Dr. Kim segment. So it's where people submit their questions to us and then we take time and Dr. Kim answers them.

So today we got the question, how do I deal with my unequally yoked marriage? Wow. What a what a difficult issue. What a common problem in a lot of marriages today. Dr. Kim, what are some ways that a Christian spouse can kind of cope with this, cope with the fact that their spouse is not a Christian, not believing?

It is a tough issue, and I think you're right.

I think there's more and more couples and people that I see that,

or at least they're at different stages in their growth.

A lot of times it is.

One's a question and one's not a Christian.

There's such a thing, you version asked me to do a reading plan that is out now on the U-Version plan

and the app and so you can get that. It's on an echo-yo. And it's, I think it'll be helpful for those that.

But I think when you look at it, I think the things that a Christian spouse needs to do, I think you need to pray.

I think you need to pray that God will give you wisdom and give you words to say at the appropriate time to your spouse.

I think you pray for that your spouse would come to know the Lord.

But you can't be domineering or too much.

You got to know your spouse and figure out what works with your spouse.

You know, if you're standing up at the end of the bed with a Bible and preaching every night to

them and then throwing the Bible out of them, that's probably not going to draw them to the Lord.

It just don't do that. A lot of it, I think, what I've, my sense has been a couple's

a lot of two where this has happened, but the other one has come to the Lord is, for example, you know, I watched how he or she did this, I watched how they treated people,

I watched how they lived their life, I saw a difference in them because the way they prayed

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