Ask Amy & T.J.: “I Think I Have My Life Together. So Why Do I Always Get Friend Zoned?”
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4.3 • 3.7K Ratings
🗓️ 12 August 2025
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Brian writes into Amy and T.J.’s weekly Yahoo advice column and says he constantly gets told “You’re so nice, I don’t want to ruin our friendship.” He wants to know how he can keep putting himself out there when, despite his accomplishments, he just can’t find a relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:04.2 | I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. |
| 0:08.0 | What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? |
| 0:12.2 | Answer, a new podcast called Wisecrack, where a comedian finds himself at the center of a chilling true crime story. |
| 0:18.8 | Does anyone know what show they've come to see? It's a story. |
| 0:23.2 | It's about the scariest night of my life. This is Wisecrack, available now. Listen to Wisecrack on |
| 0:30.3 | the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey there, folks. One of our listeners, Brian, he wrote into us with a dating dilemma. |
| 0:43.0 | See, even though he seems to have all his ish together, he keeps getting friends owned |
| 0:48.7 | time and time again by women he's interested in. |
| 0:53.5 | So what should he do? My first thought was, hey man, hang in there. |
| 0:57.6 | Robox's first thought, confidence is sexy. You should get some. And welcome to this Ask Amy and |
| 1:04.1 | DJ edition of Amy and TJ. Robs, this was a, I don't know, this was one that my, my heart sank a little bit, just in hearing |
| 1:13.6 | what he was describing. That has to suck. That's right. He sounded like he's a nice guy who has a good |
| 1:20.3 | job and is ready for a partner and he just can't find the right woman who is attracted to him. He said they all want to be his friend. |
| 1:29.7 | They just don't want to date him. And it's been devastating to him. All right. And this was the |
| 1:34.4 | question that came into us. And we answered on our weekly yahoo.com column that you can find in |
| 1:39.7 | the life section, get the Ask Amy and T.J. column where we give all kinds of folks. |
| 1:44.9 | Just relationship advice. |
| 1:46.0 | It doesn't have to be romantic relationship, but a friendship or relationship with a family |
| 1:50.1 | member, whatever may be. |
| 1:51.1 | But this was a new one that came in this week. |
| 1:52.8 | Do you think, can I ask this before we get into his full question, does it sound |
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