Ahhahahahah aah aahah, ahhah, Hello, podcast listeners, and welcome back to the rational-faced podcast, the best podcast on the Blabernacle.

I am Brian Dillman and as you might have guessed from the intro music, we have another episode of

Ask the Mormon Sex Therapist with Dr. Jennifer Finlason Fife.

In this episode she answers two questions.

One wants to know how the high desire partner,

stereotypically the man, can best contribute to a relationship

that is sexually dysfunctional, but also in the process of healing.

The hint is, it may not necessarily be just waiting patiently.

The second question is about male ownership of sexual desire. When you

want it, but you don't openly acknowledge and express your sexual desire for your

wife because it feels wrong or hedonistic or something like that so you make her do all the work in cultivating the sexual relationship.

In addition to the two questions, Jennifer and I compiled a short list of books that are good resources of information about female sexuality, about relationships, that couples can read together as they work through their

relationship issues and you can find those on the blog post. So go there there's

links there we even have ratings we used milk and meat because we have to have milk before we're ready for meat and

For many of us our comfort level with with topics of a sexual nature means that we need to eat milk first.

So there's a couple that are more milk oriented and others that are more meaty, if you will.

So that's what you have to look for so let's jump

right into the discussion. Hello everybody we have another episode of the ask a Mormon sex therapist series with

Dr. Jennifer Finlason Fife we've lost Laurel she's stuck at a family, and so it's just me and Jennifer.

So luckily we have some male-centric questions today, so this is what, that's what we'll be focusing on. So Jennifer, for those who are tuning in for the first time, can

you introduce yourself and let everyone know who you are and why you're answering the

question? Sure.

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