Asa Ellerup Speaks: Why She Still Defends Rex in the Gilgo Beach Case
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Tony Brueski
4.2 • 612 Ratings
🗓️ 9 September 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
What does it mean when a wife says that telling her husband “I love you” would hurt him? In a recent documentary, Asa Ellerup, wife of accused Gilgo Beach serial killer Rex Heuermann, gave interviews that stunned audiences with her continued loyalty, denial, and outright disbelief. “He’s a family man. He didn’t do this,” she insists—even as evidence piles up.
In this segment, we break down Asa’s words, her courtroom reactions, and her refusal to see the mounting proof. Then we contrast that with the most chilling discovery from Rex’s own basement: a typed “murder blueprint.” The document contained sectioned lists straight out of an engineering project plan:
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Problems: DNA, fingerprints, blood stains.
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Supplies: Rope (“heavy rope for neck”), saws, plastic drop cloths, acid and lye.
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Dump sites: GPS coordinates for multiple disposal locations.
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Targets: “Small women,” “remove tattoos,” “remove ID marks.”
We unpack what it means when someone needs a checklist for murder, why the rigidity points to an engineering brain, and how denial in a spouse can cross from blindness into complicity. Add in the neighbors and coworkers who described Rex as aggressive, unsettling, and Jekyll-and-Hyde, and you get the full picture: a man hiding behind a suburban façade, and a wife who still insists it’s all a mistake.
This is where the case stops being about “maybe” and starts staring us in the face. When you have lists that literally say “rope for neck,” how much more does it take?
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| 0:42.2 | Even like to open the laptop to talk to, my therapist sometimes could be really difficult. |
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| 0:58.6 | This is Hidden Killers Live with Tony Bruske, Stacey Cole and Todd Michaels. |
| 1:07.6 | Let's take another look. |
| 1:09.0 | This is Asa and that doc talking about, |
| 1:12.1 | she likes seeing him in court |
| 1:13.2 | and doesn't quite believe all this is actually going on. |
| 1:22.4 | Number two. |
| 1:23.1 | Court and C-Rex. |
| 1:29.1 | Todd's having a snack. |
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