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Dear Future Wifey

Arranged Marriages (Guests: Olivia Ibezim + Chris Ibezim)

Dear Future Wifey

Laterras R. Whitfield

Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Education, Christianity, Society & Culture

51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 6 September 2023

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Many cultures believe in arranged marriages. There are huge benefits to this practice, but many aren't willing to submit their choices of love to the discretion of their parents. Chris Ibezim from Own's "Ready to Love - Dallas" and his sister, Olivia Ibezim, share their Nigerian beliefs and why an arranged marriage doesn't work for them.



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0:00.0

I'm mother, like when I was a soul, whenever we shoot, she was like,

0:02.8

Christ of our love will come later.

0:04.6

You have to take it, wife now.

0:06.0

You know, so that's the thing and I understand it because you don't,

0:10.2

you don't have to take a wife now.

0:11.2

No, she said you have to take it, wife at your age.

0:13.4

Oh, so she said, did I need to take it and then fall in love with my head?

0:16.8

Yeah, I'll come later.

0:17.8

Yes.

0:18.6

This is a business of race, man.

0:20.1

Love will come later.

0:21.4

Exactly.

0:22.4

That person was saying, delay it, you're young.

0:25.2

So just delay it, you're young.

0:26.7

Not the woman that bought the race, marriage to me now.

0:29.5

You're going to get out and love stuff later.

0:31.3

You need this is your duty to go ahead and get married, bear some kids and all this

0:36.0

other stuff, man.

0:37.0

Hope you fall in love with her later.

0:38.0

Yeah, that's it.

0:39.0

But that's what they were doing.

0:40.0

Yeah.

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