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All three of us tend to be the problem solvers in our groups of friends, and so we're sure many of you can relate to that.

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Welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome. All right,

welcome home, everybody. Welcome to today's minipod. We are going to be querying ourselves about something that's not so political, much more personal and maybe some of you all can relate to

have you ever been, I don't know thought of in

your family your friend group your circle as the solver as the person gets it done as the person

once you mention it that person lights up and jumps to it well of the three of us I think all

three of us have been that amongst our respective circles.

And so today we want to talk a little bit about whether or not we are just doing too much.

And if we are, why we might be feeling compelled to do too much or anything.

I always think about these things ladies as being, you know, sort of unhealed traumas of our past.

And I don't know if that's true or not, but I think we often look at, we often see people look at people who jump to it, who get things done through the sympathetic lens of they just like to solve

problems versus what is, I think, probably a truer scenario that we've got some things we've got

to solve for ourselves and in our inability to do that for ourselves. It's much easier to do it

for other people. But I'm curious to know if y'all have a thought on that.

And if I've set that up properly, I may not have.

I think so.

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