Are YOU The Financial A-Hole? (Real Money Dilemmas Answered)

Networth and Chill with Your Rich BFF

Vivian Tu

Business, News, Careers, Entrepreneurship, Business News

4.8 • 1.8K Ratings

🗓️ 13 May 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Vivian is back by popular demand with another round of “Am I The Asshole? Finance Edition,” where she dives into your messiest money dilemmas and delivers her unfiltered verdict on who’s actually in the wrong. From inheritance drama and relationship debt disasters to wedding expenses, friendship resentment, and family financial guilt trips, this episode proves that money can make even the closest relationships extremely complicated. In this episode, you'll learn: 1. How to navigate financial boundaries with partners, friends, and family members, including when helping someone financially crosses the line into being taken advantage of. 2. What people actually owe each other in messy money situations, from destination wedding cancellations and shared travel costs to scams, loans, and group expenses that suddenly become awkward. 3. How to protect your own financial future while still showing up for the people you care about, plus Vivian’s honest takes on guilt, entitlement, resentment, and the emotional side of money no one teaches you about. Follow the podcast on Instagram and TikTok! Got a financial question you want answered in a future episode? Email us at podcast@yourrichbff.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Your friend sounds like a jerk.
0:02.0	It is each of our individual responsibilities to avoid being scammed.
0:06.0	When it's you versus a corporation, you do what you need to do.
0:09.0	You need to ask yourself what you are willing to invest in this friendship.
0:12.0	Is it finance? Is it emotion? Is it time?
0:15.0	There is inevitably always going to be a situation where someone can't pay it back.
0:20.0	Someone does something wrong,
0:21.6	they don't play by your rules, and now you're like, I want my money back.
0:24.9	The money isn't coming back.
0:26.1	You might be the financial A-hole.
0:35.4	What's up, Rich Friends?
0:36.6	Welcome back to another episode of Net Worth and Chill with me, your host, Vivian 2, aka Yerich BFF and your favorite Wall Street Gurley. I'm back with round three of Am I the A-Hole finance edition? For anyone new here, here's what we do. We're taking those classic internet, Am I the A-Hole dileilemas, and cranking up the stakes with real money
0:54.7	on the line. We're talking inheritance battles, relationship finances gone sideways,
0:59.2	family loan disasters, basically every uncomfortable money conundrum you can think of.
1:03.5	I'll be the judge if you were totally in the clear or completely an asshole.
1:07.6	So today we're jumping into your latest batch of financial chaos and I'm here to deliver
1:11.6	the verdict. Are you the A-hole in your money situation or are you completely justified?
1:16.4	Trust me, some of these are going to spark some heated debates. Let's get into it.
1:21.7	What's up y'all? I'm Skylar Diggins, seven-time WMBA All-Star, Olympic gold medalist, and mom.
1:27.8	And I'm Cassidy Hubbard, host and reporter for nearly 20 years covering the biggest names and
1:32.5	stories in sports and mom.
1:35.0	And this is Am Mom, a community for athletes, game changers, and moms of all kinds.
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