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Mufti Menk

Are you ready for Marriage

Mufti Menk

Muslim Central

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Islam

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2025

⏱️ 19 minutes

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0:04.6

Bismillah, Aramman, and al-hamdol-Lah, and Salatou and Salat and Salam

0:07.8

on Rassul-Lah, and on Aalhihi and Sahabi He Jemain.

0:11.4

My beloved brothers and sisters, we are having at the moment in this particular place

0:16.4

a seminar connected to marriage and connected to encouraging people to get together for

0:24.2

nikah and it is a sunnah of the prophet sallah a sallelam to get married to be interested in

0:30.1

marriage to help people getting married and to be able to actually be a vehicle of positivity

0:36.4

when it comes to marriage. But many people don't

0:40.2

talk about what is required in order to qualify to get married. Number one, you need to be a very

0:46.8

patient person. If you don't have patience, you're not qualified to get married. So work on your

0:51.7

patience. You need to be a very responsible person. So if you're

0:56.1

not responsible, you're not yet qualified to get married. So people are young, 15, 16. They say,

1:01.9

I want to do nikah. Just because you had a crush on someone at school or college, that's not good enough.

1:07.4

And then they say, no, the Prophet's Sallam made it easy why are you making it

1:10.8

difficult you don't have any of the qualities required to get married and you just

1:15.2

want to legalize your inability to control yourself and that's it that's not

1:21.8

Nikah that's not a proper marriage you want to really get married work on

1:25.4

yourself are you a person who is calm? Are you a person

1:29.3

who's patient? Have you worked on your temper? Many people have such a temper that they would actually

1:35.4

destroy so much when they get angry. They start screaming, shouting, swearing. They don't care who

1:41.4

they're talking to. No level of respect. If that's the case, work on your temper. It's normal, you're a human being. It's normal to get angry sometimes. It's normal to have a temper. But to what level is your temper? So, work on it. And the reason why I say this is many of us are married already. It's not too late to go and look at these qualities and correct

2:01.1

them inshallah it will make you happier than what you are right now so inshallah we

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