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Tea with Queen and J.

Are You Rawdogging ADHD???

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.8765 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2025

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Summary

Over the past five years, after a lifetime of struggling and a lot of research, I’ve come to the conclusion that I probably have ADHD = Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. I’m self-diagnosed, so I invited my medically diagnosed friend Diamond Stylz to discuss all things ADHD and how it impacts our lives.

1:55 Growing up undiagnosed

12:21 What is ADHD?

15:54 Ableism & Stigma

20:18 Symptoms and lowkey hoarding

25:00 Procrastination and executive function/dysfunction

26:55 Diagnoses and medication

33:33 ADHD & depression

36:58 Hormones and ADHD

42:38 Anxiety, depression and environment

49:46 bell hooks and your home

55:59 Getting/hiring help

1:00:11 Love, Limerence & ADHD

1:05:10 Friendship & ADHD

1:10:38 Rejection Sensitivity (RSD)

1:14:18 Releasing shame & building community

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I have to write grants.

0:01.8

And so sitting down and writing a grant and then get distracted and having to do this and having to do that and not being able to finish and accomplish things at the deadline.

0:11.8

And maybe I'll do this one, but this one I should have did it too.

0:14.3

But I just was so distracted.

0:16.2

Got to edit.

0:16.8

I got to do this with my podcast.

0:18.7

I got to do all of these things.

0:22.4

And sometime I fail. Right. That's why we're recording this with my podcast. I got to do all of these things and sometimes I fail.

0:22.9

Right.

0:25.2

That's why we're recording this podcast right now.

0:33.1

Because I failed to finish editing and writing for my age as an episode that I've been talking about since before.

0:35.1

That's a part of why we're here.

0:36.6

But yeah, this is like a part of the cycle.

0:38.5

And it's like, things feel harder than they would if I were neurotypical.

0:46.8

Hey, y'all.

0:47.8

Welcome to Tea with Queen and Jay, a woman is race nerd podcast.

0:50.9

This is Genesia.

0:52.4

Thank you so much for joining us today. For full video of this

0:55.9

conversation, you can find us at patreon.com backslash T with QJ. Just a quick note about

1:01.6

Patreon. You can join us there for as little as $250 a month and it really helps support the show.

1:07.7

We've been doing some version of this show independently for 11 years now in its current

1:12.3

iteration we do an episode once a month on patreon and then i do my best to put that episode

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