This audio is brought to you by Muslimcentral.com. It is a sunnah of the Prophet

Sallala to get married, to be interested in marriage, to help people getting married,

and to be able to actually be a vehicle of positivity when it comes to marriage. But many people

don't talk about what is required in order to qualify to get married. You need to be a very

patient person. If you don't have patience, you're not qualified to get married. So work on your

patience. You need to be a very responsible person. So if you're not responsible, you're not yet

qualified to get married. So people are young, 15, 16. They say, I want to do nikah. Just because

you had a crush on someone at school or college, that's not good enough. And then they say, no, the Prophet's Sallam made it easy. Why are you making it difficult? You don't have any of the qualities required to get married and you just want to legalize your inability to control yourself. And that's it. not nikah that's not a proper marriage you want

to really get married work on yourself are you a person who is calm are you a person who's patient

have you worked on your temper many people have such a temper that they would actually destroy so

much when they get angry they start screaming shouting swearing they don't care who they're talking to. No level of respect. If that's the case, work on your temper. It's normal. You're a human being. It's normal to get angry sometimes. It's normal to have a temper. But to what level is your temper? So work on it. And the reason why I say this is many of us are married already it's not too late to

go and look at these qualities and correct them inshallah it will make you happier than what

you are right now so inshallah we work on our patience be very patient you know you are going to

live with someone who's different from you you need to offer them honor are you prepared to do that

you need to protect them are you prepared to do that you need to give them dignity You need to offer them honor. Are you prepared to do that? You need to protect them.

Are you prepared to do that? You need to give them dignity. You need to make them feel worthwhile,

like the Prophet, sallala a salem did to his spouses. You need to make them understand or feel,

at least, that you are the one who is there to protect them and to provide for them to the best of your ability.

So there is no need to cold shoulder someone. If that's your way of dealing with things,

then, subhann Allah, you still need a lot before you can get married.