Alright, Slain, we'll just start with this. What does it mean when you ask, are you married

in public? What are we getting at there?

I think we're really getting to the heart of whether or not you are being transparently

married. Is that right?

That sounds about right.

So like when things are getting hard and you don't really like your spouse in that moment

or you're having some dry times in your marriage, how are you remaining married, I guess,

when you're in public or at work or not with your spouse?

And being obviously married.

And being how can you continue to be obviously married when you don't really want to sometimes?

So I think there's a few ways this plays out.

There's the angry and frustrated I'm lashing out.

And there's also the sense if there's this low grade sort of disconnection happening

and say you're at work or you're at a coffee shop or you're at the gym or you've got

the grocery store and you kind of want to feel like you still got it because you're

feeling disconnected with your spouse.

Right.

So you kind of are waiting to see if guys or gals are noticing you and if they're casting

glances your way.

And so it kind of becomes this way to boost your self-esteem.

Right.

Anyway, so this episode is dedicated to that topic of how can we be obviously married in

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