Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to share with you a coaching session that I did with a listener of the podcast. And this episode is longer than most of

the other episodes. And the first six to eight minutes are just us exploring because what I get a lot

from women, especially when people do the free recorded coaching call to be featured on the podcast, is people come to me like, I have no idea what is happening.

I'm reading the books, I'm listening to the podcasts, I'm a self-aware human, I'm an interesting person, I'm a lovable person, like,

why is dating not working? And so sometimes I need to ask a few questions to start to dig into that

and see, well, where could it be challenging or where might this person's challenge be?

And so I think that she does a really beautiful job at articulating her emotional experience and dating. And I think it's really

worthwhile to listen to the entire episode. And then we get into really practical and helpful

tips. So some of the things that we get into really practical and helpful tips.

So some of the things that we get into, and definitely not all of it,

but a few of the key points were just staying in alignment and pacing myself and creating space and all of that mean I can't have fireworks and passion and

excitement in dating, and how can I have both? passion and excitement in dating.

And how can I have both?

How can I be in alignment with somebody and have that crazy chemistry?

Another thing we spoke about is that feeling of learning new information about how to improve your dating life. And then you look back on past experiences and you're like,

oh my God, does that mean I fucked it up with all of those people? And how to reframe that and not

view it in that way. And then we also spoke about how very often women try to make a path for the guy to be able to have a relationship with us.

And basically we make it too easy for him and how to not do that and how to remain in alignment

when you notice that tendency.

And we also spoke about how to appreciate dating, even if it's not immediately

leading to the relationship that you want. So there's so much good stuff in this episode,

and I really think it's worthwhile to listen to the whole thing. And before you get started,

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