Welcome to Marriage Day Podcast. I'm Jimmy Evans. This is my wife, Karen. This podcast

exists to help every couple thrive in marriage. Today we have a really special podcast for

you because Karen's going to be sharing her testimony. This is something that she shared

during one of our exo conferences. And it's about insecurity. It's about how the Lord

healed her of insecurity. And Karen, we're going to go to this testimony here and just

meant where you were sharing. But before that, we have a couple of questions. Yeah. What

advice do you have to help this former pastor and wife couple heal after his infidelity?

Former pastor and wife. You have to get help. You have to go outside of yourself. Go go

to a pastor, a Christian counselor, someone that you trust. He has to be honest. He has

to take ownership of what he's done. And it's a long road. It's not a quick fix. There

has to be now the decisions, the decisions to stay together and work it out is huge. However,

the husband here is the burdens on him. The wife has been cheated on and he did the cheating.

So now he's got to prove that he's sincere, that he's going to be faithful to her and

work at the relationship. You need help. And now we have our mediators here at exo. They

do telephone. They do zoom. They also do it in person. So if you can't find someone

there locally, go on exomarriage.com and you can find out there about our mediator institute.

But you need to get help. You need to find someone that can help you and to keep you accountable

to stay with you through the process because it's very critical. Karen, you have one there.

Husband spends all of his free time playing video games online and with his friends. What

advice would you give about approaching this with him? I think he needs the wooden spoon.

Yeah, it's like hello. Yeah, this is not good. I think that the best thing probably is to sit

down and try to communicate it and just say that you know, she's feeling like he puts things

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