Are You Ask Culture or Guess Culture? This Communication Skill Is Life-Changing
Therapy in a Nutshell
Therapy in a Nutshell -Emma McAdam
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🗓️ 10 March 2022
⏱️ 17 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi and welcome to the Therapy in a Nutschell podcast. I'm Emma McAdam, a licensed marriage and family therapist, |
| 0:06.0 | and it's my mission to create easy to understand educational content about therapeutic skills and topics that anyone can use in their daily life. |
| 0:14.0 | Stay tuned till the end of the video to learn more about my mental health courses, discounts, and other news related to therapy in a nutshell. |
| 0:21.9 | I hope you enjoy the episode. Each podcast episode comes from a corresponding video you can find on the |
| 0:28.2 | Therapy in a Nutshell YouTube channel. Also, these podcasts are educational and don't replace the |
| 0:34.0 | advice or direction you may be receiving from a therapist or other health professional. |
| 0:38.3 | All right, let's jump in. |
| 0:41.3 | Are you an asker or a guesser? |
| 0:43.3 | I saw this story on Facebook that perfectly illustrates this crucial communication style that no one is talking about. |
| 0:51.3 | But if you did know about it, it could be life-changing. |
| 0:54.7 | So knowing the difference could save your relationships. So let's start with the story, right? |
| 1:01.3 | The husband says, we live in a small two-bedroom apartment in New York City. People like to visit |
| 1:07.5 | here and they don't generally want to pay for a hotel. We understand this. |
| 1:12.2 | However, we also don't want people staying with us who we don't know or we don't like. |
| 1:17.2 | My wife received the following email. |
| 1:20.0 | Is there a chance that I could stay with you and Jeff for a portion of that time? |
| 1:24.5 | I'd be using the subway the whole time and I'd be gone from 10 to 10 probably every day, so I'd be out of your way most of the time? I'd be using the subway the whole time and I'd be gone from 10 to 10 probably |
| 1:28.7 | every day, so I'd be out of your way most of the time. Let me know if this might be a possibility. |
| 1:33.9 | Your choice on the dates, thanks for your help. I hope this works out so we can see each other. |
| 1:38.3 | Okay, first, I don't even know this woman. I've never even spoken with her. My wife doesn't really like her, |
| 1:44.4 | but she's one of those people who just won't go away. To complicate things further, |
| 1:48.8 | my wife is one of those people who doesn't really like to say no or to turn away people |
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