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What's The Juice

ARE YOU ADDICTED TO DRAMA? - how to break free from cycles of pain, limiting beliefs and trauma with Dr. Scott Lyons

What's The Juice

Olivia Amitrano

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4.92.1K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2023

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

Ep 89. Buckle up for this sassy yet super vulnerable conversation with Dr. Scott Lyons, PhD. Dr. Lyons is a holistic psychologist, educator, and author as well as a renowned body-based trauma expert and Doctor of Osteopathy. He helps people break free from cycles of pain, limited beliefs, and trauma to restore vitality and live a more stress-free life. Dr. Lyons' new book, “Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others” gets into the juice of drama addiction and charts a path to healing, without any sugar coating!

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Here’s the juice:

  • When Scott realized he was addicted to a drama cycle as a way to distract from processing his own trauma and how he experienced withdrawals once he started dealing with it

  • The endemic of loneliness that we’re experiencing as a society, and why we gossip

  • How the drama that we create is really a survival response to avoid feelings of abandonment 

  • The difference between primary emotions (that we feel deep in our core) and secondary emotions (essentially depositories)

  • Why we do something Scott calls “revving” to give us a hit of stress or drama when we’re uncomfortable in a feeling – like scrolling social media or listening to a sad song

  • How overscheduling or hyper performing academically/professionally can actually be a form of drama addiction

  • 3 steps you can take if you want to unwind unhealthy patterns and come back to safety in your body

  • How to break free from trauma bonding in relationships – do you pick fights for no reason?

  • An exercise we can try to slowly and intentionally get more comfortable with being in our bodies instead of numbing out

  • Why every time we take in a stimulus (a stressor) we need to balance it out with movement because that helps us actualize and complete a stress response 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Are you ready for a sassy episode of What's the Juice? We just need an injection of sass and sarcasm and

0:09.9

realness sometimes in this show. And today we get to go into one of my favorite topics, which is our

0:16.6

very own psychology and the ways in which we experience this world and experience our trauma

0:23.3

and all the ways in which our trauma can kind of make us act a little bit haywire and create

0:27.6

chaos in our relationships and ways in which we can begin to heal and move past that trauma

0:34.3

and those toxic cycles in order to be healthier humans and have healthier relationships.

0:39.2

This is my gem. This is my bread and butter. I love talking about human relationships, how we

0:44.6

relate to one another, our own neuroses and issues and how we can become more aware of them

0:50.4

and become healthier people. And that's exactly what we're doing today with Dr. Scott Lyons.

0:55.4

He is, again, a very sassy, holistic psychologist. He's an educator. He's an author. He's also a

1:02.0

body-based trauma expert. He's a doctor of osteopathy, and he's a mind-body medicine specialist

1:07.9

who helps people to actually break free from the cycles of pain,

1:12.4

limited beliefs, and trauma that exists in their physical body.

1:15.5

This man is a genius and he really gets the somatic experiencing of how we store things in the

1:22.1

body and doesn't just focus on the talk therapy piece or talking it out.

1:26.4

He's like, no, no, no, your body remembers.

1:28.5

You got to figure out where it is in the physical bod. See it, mirror it, and get it out that way.

1:34.5

And he does not sugarcoat. He actually just wrote a book called Addicted to Drama, which is

1:39.1

exactly what we're going to talk about today. Because so many of us who've had a history of trauma

1:43.9

and chaos, especially

1:44.8

in our childhoods, have experienced this feeling of being addicted to drama. He's going to tell

1:50.0

his own story about how he realized he was addicted to a drama cycle in his life and creating

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