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The Anxious Achiever

Are Women Punished For Being Emotional At Work?

The Anxious Achiever

Morra Aarons-Mele

Mental Health, Management, Careers, Health & Fitness, Business

4.7600 Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

The question of how and when to show certain emotions at work is evolving, and it’s subject to a lot of bias. There are still double standards around behavior for many groups of people, and today we’ll talk about the negative -- and positive-- impacts for women who show emotion in and around the workplace.  We’ll learn how far we’ve come - and haven’t - from Stanford sociologist Marianne Cooper, who was also lead researcher for Sheryl Sandberg’s New York Times bestseller Lean In and co-authors the annual Women in the Workplace study with Lean In and McKinsey.

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0:00.0

LinkedIn Presents

0:02.0

I'm Maura Aaron's Mealy and this is the anxious achiever, the show that looks at the intersection of mental health and work and how we can all do both better.

0:28.1

Double standards abound in a lot of aspects of our lives, and that includes the working world.

0:33.9

I know, I know you're shocked. Leaders, though, corporate cultures might say they value one thing.

0:41.8

But those same standards aren't applied to all people.

0:46.4

When I think about how far we've come in the space I work in, workplace mental health, we've made real positive change.

0:53.8

Every day I see the narrative furthered, people talking about mental health, we've made real positive change. Every day I see the narrative furthered,

0:56.0

people talking about mental health and work from a perspective of strength and success.

1:02.0

And frankly, every time I see a man cry on TV, I feel a little bit more hopeful.

1:08.4

But there's still bias. And today we'll zero in on gender in particular, because while

1:14.8

more and more leaders who are men might be joining the conversation around mental health and

1:18.9

showing their feelings, there's still a lot of stereotyping that goes on when a woman is dealing

1:23.9

with something emotionally and mentally straining on the job.

1:30.3

My guest today is Marianne Cooper.

1:35.6

She's a sociologist at Stanford, where she focuses on women's leadership, gender,

1:38.1

DEI, economic insecurity, and more.

1:41.6

And if you haven't heard of her, you likely know her work.

1:46.0

Marianne was the lead researcher on the now infamous, but very famous book by Cheryl Sandberg, Lean In, and she co-authors the Lean In and McKinsey study

1:51.9

on women in the workplace.

2:00.6

Just as we get going here broadly broadly, what's changed and what hasn't for women at work since 2013?

2:10.1

I think not as much has changed as we all would have liked.

2:14.4

So I was thinking about, well, representation is a little bit better at leadership levels.

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