Hello and welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast. We are David Ashley Willis and on

this podcast, we address the truth about sex intimacy and lifelong love. And you guys

know what time it is. It is September. That's right. That's right. And we are so excited

to start this series with you. We're actually going to talk about something that we get a

lot of emails about right, sweetie. Yeah. And that's when you you fall into what we call

a sexual slump. And maybe you don't use the word slump, but a slump just means like

you're, you know, you're, you're in a rut. You're out of the routine. You know, things

are not connecting maybe like they once did. You don't have the frequency you once did.

And for whatever reason, this part of your marriage is just sort of, I don't know, it

just like blah. Yeah, just kind of blah. It's meh. Or maybe it's not even happening

at all in extreme cases. And most couples will go through some forms of sexual slump

in their marriage. And so we're just going to have a real honest conversation about what

to do, when and if that happens in your marriage. So let's dive in.

You know, sweetie, I'm so glad we're talking about this topic. I've actually had an influx

of emails from really both husbands and wives recently that have been asking about how

to approach their spouse about feeling like they're in a sexual slump. I mean, they've

really, really been concerned about it because they don't want to hurt them, but they do

also not want to keep going as they're going, right? Yeah. And, and so we've had it, like

I said, from both husbands and wives, and as far as that question, like, well, how do

I approach my spouse if I feel like, you know, things are just kind of blah right now in

our sex life. And I would say, you know, you have to go and first ask them kind of how

they think things are going. I think it's good to first give them that first kind of word.

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