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Are Christian Couples Required to Have Kids?

Ask Pastor John

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John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2020

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

The Bible is clear that children are a gift from God. So is there any room for a Christian couple to decide not to have any?

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0:00.0

We love to see here from our international listeners who are spread out all across the globe.

0:09.9

Here's a question today from a young woman.

0:12.2

Hello, Pastor John, greetings to you from Finland, and thank you for this podcast.

0:16.6

I am married, but my husband and I have no children.

0:20.0

In Genesis, God tells the first couple, to be fruitful and multiply, increase greatly

0:26.0

on the earth and multiply in it.

0:28.8

In Genesis 9.7, today, many people in my nation, people who are married and capable of having

0:34.8

children choose not to.

0:37.3

Intentional, childlessness has become very common in the past decade, and the reasons

0:42.8

are diverse.

0:43.8

Fear is about climate change, worries about the fragile health of the mother, worries about

0:48.1

being a bad parent, and simply deprioritizing children entirely.

0:53.4

I know you said it was permissible for couples to wait to have kids and to limit the number

0:58.7

of children that they have.

1:00.5

That was an episode 1176, and you said it's permissible in some cases for a missionary couple

1:07.4

to forego children altogether.

1:10.1

That's episode 286.

1:12.0

But how about non-missionary Christians?

1:14.9

Is it permissible for an ordinary Christian couple to simply choose to not have children

1:19.7

at all?

1:20.7

How would you respond, Pastor John?

1:23.0

My first response is, I don't think there is any such thing as simply choose.

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