Hey guys, it's Rachel and this is a quick word on finding love.

I have a very dear friend who went through a breakup last year and is looking for love.

Like, they finally feel ready, they've done the therapy, they've done the healing and

he's looking for love and he's the kind of person who is not looking to date.

Like he is looking for a girlfriend.

He wants a partner.

He doesn't know how to do a sort of shallow conversation.

He's one of those people, which is probably why we're friends, who wants to go deep right

away.

Like, hey, what's really going on and what do you think about this and what did you learn

in therapy and what's your childhood trauma?

He's an incredible person, but he was talking about all of the things that he wanted in

a partner.

And I asked him, I was like, have you ever written this down?

Have you ever put in a journal entry like, I want to attract this kind of person to my

life.

I did this.

Gosh, I guess a year and a half ago, almost, yeah, January of 2021.

I wrote this down in my journal.

I was like, I'm not ready to find a partner, but when I do, I want my partner to be this.

I want him to have these values.

I want him to care about this stuff.

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