This is the Brandt and Sherry podcast. To find out more about the radio show and Brantz new book called

Unoffendable, just go to brantt Hansen.com. You know what's hard? I mean, what's really, really hard.

It's actually listening to somebody criticize you. Like, tell you, here's some areas you need to improve.

Very difficult. And people are like, oh, when you get older older it gets it it doesn't it it stains

I mean you may not react as yeah react as quickly but it still stains

nobody likes it when it's happening

tell you what's harder not listening

when somebody tells you about things you need to improve yeah because you'll pay

for it down the line easier in the moment i don't have to listen tell you what you're not correctable

and i know this from experience believe me um you're not correctable uh you'll pay for it down the line

it's easier to listen in the moment because the pain's coming if you don't.

You may hate this, believe me, I struggle with this too, but

you have to listen when people you love,

who you know of your best interest or heart will correct you, offer correction.

It is so hard, but that's part of being teachable and it's part of being humble.

And if you're not teachable, you're going to be in serious trouble later on.

You're going to learn one way or the other.

That's what I'm on with it.

You're going to learn.

So it's easier to learn when someone says it and try to take that bitter pill down

than to be defiant. Especially if it's somebody who you know is on your side. That's the thing.

It's not just like some random person. I don't like your hair. Right. Well, I don't have to

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