Approval, Psychedelics, and Mindfulness
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 22 April 2022
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Approval, Psychedelics, and Mindfulness
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob e-mails, let's answer him, what do you say? |
| 0:02.5 | I say yes. |
| 0:03.8 | Up at your patron, Bokari, from Madison, Wisconsin. |
| 0:06.9 | He says, do you have any advice on how I could stop being so desperate for others approval |
| 0:12.5 | while being completely honest about my past behavior that I can use while I look for a long-term |
| 0:17.9 | therapist? I'm coming to terms with the fact that I have a need for validation and forgiveness |
| 0:23.2 | from past partners, especially those whose opinion I hold in high regard and whom I view as |
| 0:28.8 | more sophisticated and educated than I am. |
| 0:31.8 | Side note, it's kind of an interesting phrase there. |
| 0:34.6 | I have exhibited behavior, specifically sending... Wait, I blank, what was the thing? |
| 0:41.2 | He says, I'm coming to terms with the fact I need validation for past partners, |
| 0:45.6 | especially those whose opinions I hold in high regard and whom I view as more sophisticated |
| 0:50.0 | and educated than I am. Oh, you know what I mean? Yes. |
| 0:53.2 | It's like to think along those lines of, that past partner is more sophisticated than me. |
| 1:00.7 | That's a hell of a view of self. |
| 1:02.3 | Yeah, it's an interesting kind of paradigm. |
| 1:06.4 | I have exhibited behavior, specifically sending an ex-partner a message and then |
| 1:10.3 | compelled to send another message after several more months or a year |
| 1:14.1 | that results in me becoming more desperate when attempts to reach out results in being blocked |
| 1:18.7 | or ignored by them. So trying to be in here, my impression is Bukhari is like |
| 1:24.3 | reaching out to a former partner and saying something like, hey, can you validate me in this way |
| 1:31.6 | or I'm sorry that I did this to you forgive me and it could have been years later or months later |
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