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AP 373: How to Parent Your Perfectionistic Child, Part One || with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and Carolyn Bever

About Progress

Cloud10

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 7 February 2022

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Do you have a child who struggles with perfectionism? Maybe, you’re not quite sure . . .  Parenting a perfectionistic child can be overwhelming and confusing, especially because perfectionism isn’t just for the stereotypical overachiever.  For years, I’ve heard from parents who want to know what to do with their kids who are terrified of failure. That’s why I invited two experts to share their advice this week.  Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and Carolyn Bever share their personal and professional advice on HOW to parent and empower perfectionistic children.  We cover: how to recognize perfectionism in your child, the importance of you having your own sense of self, and practical tips on how to parent your unique perfectionist.   We had so much to share, that we needed to split the episode into two parts! So, be sure to come back for Part Two and its expansion on the most essential tip: starting with yourself. You don’t have to feel overwhelmed and confused. Start with these tips to help empower and parent your perfectionistic child! Full Show Notes + Transcript Podcast Sponsor - code 'ABOUTPROGRESS' Finding Me Course Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.5

Do you have a perfectionistic child? Well, maybe you're not quite sure.

0:06.0

Today, you'll learn from two experts on how to recognize if your child is navigating life

0:11.6

with perfectionistic tendencies in control and what you can begin to do about it.

0:18.9

Welcome to About Progress. I'm Monica Packer, a regular mom and recovering perfectionist.

0:25.3

He uncovered the truest model to dramatic, belasting, personal growth.

0:30.1

Its progress made practical. Join us to leave the extremes behind and instead learn how to do

0:38.1

something to grow and ways that stick. If you like this course, then you'll love my foundational

0:46.8

course on identity called Finding Me. When you are stable with who you are, you'll be able to

0:52.9

navigate trick your relationships with more clarity and control. You can enroll by going to

0:58.5

aboutprogress.com slash finding me. I was this stereotypical perfectionist as a teenager for sure.

1:09.7

As a kid, I don't remember, but I know as a teen in the most defining years of my life, I loved

1:15.6

to achieve. I sought my value and constant affirmation through my own success, and I was completely

1:23.3

and independently diligent about doing the right things and in the right ways.

1:30.8

Maybe you recognize your own child in that description, or perhaps you have a kid who seems to

1:36.7

stop before they really start, or maybe they seem lazy, insecure, or paralyzed in their lack of

1:44.3

effort. They are likely perfectionists too. Being a parent of a perfectionist is complicated and

1:52.3

confusing. How much do you step in? And when? Should you praise achievement? Or the lack thereof?

1:59.6

What do you do with that? How can you parent and empower these unique kids?

2:07.2

This has been one of the most requested topics by our audience. How to parent perfectionistic

2:14.0

kids. And I totally get why? Because I have won myself. Today, we are going to begin to answer

2:21.6

these questions. And I said begin, because this is part one, and later this week, we will release

2:27.7

part two. Our guests today are experts, moms, and sisters. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Five has been on

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