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Disordered: Anxiety Help

Anxiety Disorders and Sneaky Compulsions (Episode 151)

Disordered: Anxiety Help

Josh Fletcher and Drew Linsalata

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9663 Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2026

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

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This episode of Disordered dives into the concept of sneaky compulsions. Many people struggling with anxiety or OCD often find themselves performing behaviors that they do not immediately recognize as compulsions. These can look like productive research, seeking reassurance through a joke, or even "checking" to see if you still feel calm.


Drew and Josh discuss how these behaviors are often avoidance or escape mechanisms in disguise. Whether it is asking a therapist if you are the worst case they have ever seen or using AI to obsess over a body sensation, these actions are designed to provide short term relief while keeping you stuck in the anxiety cycle.


Key topics covered in this episode:

* Why we mask compulsions as personality traits or curiosity.

* The "reassurance seeker's workaround" of projecting issues onto others.

* How gathering more information can actually be a form of avoidance.

* Real life examples from the community about catching sneaky compulsions in the moment.

* The importance of psychological flexibility and learning to be with difficult feelings instead of trying to fix them.


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Transcript

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sneaky compulsions and anxiety disorders we don't realize that their avoidances escape behaviors

0:07.0

compulsions they look like something correct or sometimes we know it's a compulsion we know

0:13.1

it's a safety behavior we know it's reassurance seeking and we mask it and we think no one's

0:17.4

going to know what I'm doing here loved ones would get sick of me asking for reassurance and stuff.

0:21.8

I do like a work around.

0:23.1

I'd like work around it a little bit.

0:25.3

I project it onto like a character on TV or an anecdote from work.

0:29.6

Sheila from work has this and you know, what do you think of that?

0:32.1

And then they're like, we know your game.

0:34.0

I'm not putting my hand on my chest or anything like that.

0:36.8

I'm not going to monitor my pulse.

0:38.4

I remember I was out and I was leaning against the wall just to press my back against the wall to

0:43.2

feel my heart rate. I was like, I'm doing it even unconscious. This is such a sneaky compulsion.

0:47.6

Like, stop monitoring your heart rate.

0:53.1

Welcome to Disordered. This is episode 151. Today we're talking about sneaky compulsions and anxiety disorders because they're not only compulsions, they are sneaky.

1:02.1

I am Drew Lynch, a lot of one-half of disordered. I am a therapist that specializes in the treatment of anxiety and anxiety disorders practicing in New York.

1:08.8

I'm a former sufferer of the things we talk about undisordered.

1:11.8

I'm an author.

1:12.6

I'm a psychoeducator and advocate social media guy.

1:15.5

And I am joined from across the pond by my esteemed co-host as always.

1:19.8

Hi, everyone.

1:20.4

I'm Joshua Fletcher, also known as Anxiety Josh.

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