Anxiety About Not Being Anxious? (Episode 043)
Disordered: Anxiety Help
Josh Fletcher and Drew Linsalata
4.9 • 665 Ratings
🗓️ 5 January 2024
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
Do you ever get anxious ... because you're not feeling anxious?
This is a real thing in our community! Anxious people who begin to experience moments where anxiety and agitation fade into the background will often find themselves becoming anxious because they're not feeling anxious!
This week Drew and Josh explore this confusing but all too common anxiety recovery issue. The discussion includes:
- How old anxious brain habits die hard.
- Why it is normal to immediately worry that feelings of calm will not last.
- Treating yourself as fragile to keep the anxiety from "coming back".
- The importance of recognizing non-anxious moments as indicators of recovery rather than harbingers of doom.
As usual, the episode includes a combination of professional experience, training, knowledge, and personal experience alongside a dash of good humor and a few reminders about the need to be patient and kind with yourself to keep "Craig the critic" at bay.
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| 0:00.0 | I had uneasy about feeling nothing. |
| 0:05.0 | What is this nothing feeling? |
| 0:07.0 | I didn't like it, man. It really disturbed me. |
| 0:10.0 | I've realized I'm not anxious. |
| 0:12.0 | Wow. What's going on? |
| 0:15.0 | This is strange. |
| 0:16.0 | Ah! And then you trigger anxiety again. |
| 0:18.0 | The state of feeling like my body being quiet and my mind being quiet for a few minutes was so foreign to me that it would disturb me. |
| 0:24.6 | I would have paid money to feel nothing for a long time. |
| 0:27.6 | But then when I did, I interpreted it as something was wrong. |
| 0:30.6 | A change in state where actually the only thing that we sometimes we can lean on is that well I'm used to experiencing six to |
| 0:37.5 | eight out of ten anxiety at this point and when it's not there your reality changes a bit |
| 0:42.3 | why is this happening is my brain changing am I losing my mind no it means you're |
| 0:48.0 | doing well and you're well on your way welcome to Disordered this is episode 43 Today we're talking about being anxious, about not being anxious, which sounds funny, but it's a thing. |
| 1:00.0 | I'm Drew Linzalata, one of the co-host of Disordered. I'm a therapist in training in New York and the U.S. |
| 1:05.0 | Planning to specialize in anxiety and anxiety disorders. I'm also a podcaster and an author on the topic of anxiety and recovery, |
| 1:14.9 | and a former sufferer of anxiety and depression for many years, but better now. |
| 1:20.5 | And I'm Joshua Fletcher, also known as Anxiety Josh on social media. I'm a psychotherapist and author based in the UK and a previous sufferer. Welcome, dude. Welcome back. Good topic today. |
| 1:28.3 | Anxious about not being anxious. |
| 1:30.3 | It does sound a bit silly, but it's actually really common. |
| 1:35.3 | And I'm looking forward to talking about it with you today. |
| 1:38.3 | It's a thing. |
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