Ant & The Cheating Physically Abusive Narcissist | Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Relationships, Education, True Crime, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2024

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Ant shares her story of dating a cheating physical abuser. Ant was loved bombed on their first date and was trauma-bonded pretty quickly. As the relationship unfolded, Ant began to uncover infidelity and drug use. At first, Ant let these things slide, but as time went on, Ant began to voice her displeasure, and this is where the physical abuse took a turn for the worse. It's a story of physical abuse, financial abuse, fear, addiction, obligation, guilt, blame, manipulation, gaslighting, isolation, self harm, codependency, rage, mental health, suicide attempts, threats, infidelity, depression, and anxiety. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, sexual abuse, and suicide. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Ant,
0:08.1	an aunt was in a relationship with a physically abusive cheater.
0:12.3	It's a story of being used, codependency, guilt, manipulation, addiction, and staying away for good. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:45.2	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today we have Ant.
0:49.7	How are you?
0:51.3	I'm good.
0:52.3	How are you?
0:53.5	I am doing well.
0:55.2	Thank you for asking.
0:56.7	And if you want to be a guest like Aunt is today, please do go to our website at
1:01.4	Narcissistapocalypse.com and click the guest form button at the top of the page.
1:06.2	And there you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com
1:12.7	or fill out our guest form and press the submit button and please do send it in the format that
1:17.5	we ask for. And we have a content warning for today's episode as we do discuss in graphic detail,
1:25.6	physical abuse, and we do that on multiple occasions and suicidal ideation.
1:30.7	We discussed that in this episode, so that is your content warning for today.
1:35.6	And today you're going to hear Ant's story, and Ant was, for brief time, the other woman in this story. And for victim blamers out there, please do not
1:47.0	judge Aunt for her decisions. To me, they all make sense. And abuse is abuse. And once you're
1:53.9	hooked, it is really hard to get out. And as Aunt's story unfolds, things really do escalate.
2:00.8	So just a big thank you for, aunt, for being here with us today.
2:05.1	And now I'm going to get out of my way and your way.
2:07.8	Aunt, the floor is now yours.
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