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So to defend your brother behind his back is one thing,

but to mention him to Allah behind his back is another thing. And you find yourself in these moments where you're coming across a message about what's happened with this person, what's happened with that person.

Or something causes you to remember your brother or sister.

One of the best things that you could do is to tune yourself to immediately praying for someone

as soon as you see something with them.

So, you know, that's one of the ways that we ward off envy

is that you see something that someone has and you immediately say

Allahhama Baaraklaha, Allahhlaibahu, Allahamabakhlahu, Allahh,

Allahh, Allahh, bless them with that thing, right?

You accustom yourself to making duraa, to supplicating for them as soon as you see something.

One of the beautiful things about Dura for your brother or sister is what the Prophet Salalah al-I-hahil al-I was said that when a person makes duah for their

brother or sister behind their back, bidahril laiib. So this is not something that you go

and you tell someone constantly, hey I was making duat for you. I was praying for you.

Now you can do that as a means of showing solidarity, but not as a means of men, which is a means of boasting or

claiming some sort of favor over someone else.

Like I made du Ahh a for you last night

so that you can make that person feel like they're indebted to you.

The same way with sadaq, with charity.

You might let someone know you're giving them charity

as a means of solidarity, but not as a means of giving

yourself an upper hand over them to where they feel like they owe you and you could chip

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