This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

and I encourage you to continue the conversation in your own life and with your own community.

Welcome to Query.

Hey Query, Rose Camming here.

And I hope this is a calm place for you to land in the midst of a bunch of un-called things

that you can feel that I'm with you in your ears right now.

Today's guest on the podcast is Angela Chen, who wrote the book Ace, What A Sexuality

Reveals About Desire Society in the Meaning of Sex.

I love this chat.

It was great to connect with Angela.

And I also want to say thank you to all of the new subscribers who came in through Patreon

since our best of 2020 episodes.

Doing this show remotely has been challenging and the pandemic has affected ad sales.

And it has meant the world to me that many of you have stepped in to help make this show

happen.

You can go to patreon.com slash hate, rears, and support the show.

Thank you so much.

Enjoy the episode.

I've been feeling wrong.

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