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Death, Sex & Money

An Update from the Sex Worker Next Door

Death, Sex & Money

Slate Podcasts

Business, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Careers, Relationships, Sexuality

4.67.6K Ratings

🗓️ 2 November 2022

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Emma was a single mom and supported her family with the income she made from sex work. The money was good. But she struggled with the secrecy, and the shame.

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0:00.0

Hey, it's Anna. This week we are sharing an episode with you that I have never forgotten.

0:05.8

It's a story that began in my inbox and that's sex and money's very first year.

0:11.2

And then took some unexpected turns. I hope you enjoy it.

0:15.9

I realized why I was laying in bed trying to sleep. How much fear I actually have.

0:23.7

This is death, sex, and money. The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

0:35.0

I need to talk about more. I'm Anna Sales.

0:41.0

I often hear from guests after interviews, but this time was a little different.

0:51.4

I was awake most of the night and what little I slept, I dreamt of this.

0:56.6

This is hard to ask, but I'm asking. Please don't use my tape.

1:01.4

The day before I talked to her for about an hour and a half.

1:04.6

This all started months earlier when she reached out to me in an email after listening to one of our episodes.

1:10.2

I'm responding to your episode on cheating.

1:13.1

As a sex worker, I play a role in cheating on a weekly basis.

1:17.8

She told me most of her clients are married.

1:20.4

Sometimes I think about the wives. I think about how they would feel if the new where their husband was and what he was doing with me.

1:27.8

Am I facilitating cheating? I guess so. Can I sleep at night? Mostly.

1:34.1

In this first email, she was fairly unapologetic about the benefits of her work.

1:38.7

Her clients leave with their sexual needs fulfilled. She leaves with money.

1:43.3

It's sex work and it's illegal.

1:46.2

We emailed back and forth and she said she wanted to talk with me about what she does for a living,

1:50.7

as long as her identity would be concealed.

1:53.2

That's why the sound of her voice has been manipulated and we're not using her real name.

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