Amber Rae | She Met Her Soulmate While Still Married — The Wake-Up Call You Need!

Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe

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🗓️ 7 August 2025

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

#865. What if the life you built—your marriage, your identity, your comfort zone—no longer aligned with who you really are?

Bestselling author and speaker Amber Rae joins Kaitlyn to talk about her new book Loveable and the moment everything changed: meeting her soulmate while still married. She opens up about navigating a sexless relationship, struggling with Adderall addiction and eating disorders, and learning how to sit with her emotions instead of silencing them.They dive deep into the power of truth, vulnerability, and the scary but beautiful process of coming home to yourself.

If you’ve ever stayed in something because it felt comfortable—or silenced your truth to avoid disappointing others—this episode is for YOU.

Listen now and ask yourself: What truth are you afraid to admit… and why?

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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

(8:09) – Amber shares the pivotal moment she met her soulmate while still married and how it set off a complete unraveling of the life she had built.
(17:50) – A powerful conversation about people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and what happens when you realize you’ve been living for others.
(26:40) – Amber opens up about life after a sexless marriage, reconnecting with desire, and healing intimacy wounds in a new relationship.
(37:30) – A raw look into Amber’s experience with Adderall addiction, eating disorders, and the deeper issues driving them.
(48:57) – Amber shares a powerful question to help you face the truth you might be avoiding.

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0:00.0	This episode of Off the Vine is brought to you by Boulin Branch.
0:02.9	Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first set of sheets at bollandbranch.com slash vine. BetterHelp. Off the Vine listeners, you're going to get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com slash vine. Wayfair, head to Wayfair right now to shop all things home. That's W-A-Y-F-A-I-R.com. Wayfair, every style, every home. And Lady World. Come join me for a really
0:24.4	fun weekend. Get your tickets now at Ladyworld.co. You're listening to Off the Vine with
0:33.8	Caitlin Bristow. Hey, Vino's, real quick, if you are listening right now, which obviously you are,
0:40.3	you wouldn't be hearing this, can you hit the subscribe or follow button on whatever platform
0:44.2	you're on?
0:44.8	Please, that one simple thing helps more than you even realize it allows me to keep growing
0:49.8	on this podcast and making these episodes the best they can possibly be obviously for you.
0:55.4	That's the only favorite I'm going to ever ask. Okay. It truly means the world to me. Thank you.
0:59.4	Now let's get into it. Hey, everybody. Welcome to Off the Vine. I'm your host, Caitlin Bristow.
1:03.5	And today's guest is someone whose story will probably stay with you long after this episode.
1:08.9	Amber Ray is a best-selling author. She's a artist, a speaker,
1:13.3	an emotional wellness, advocate who spent years helping people move through fear, connect with
1:19.0	their truth, and express themselves fully, which obviously I align with. But in her latest book,
1:24.4	Loveable, Amber turns the mirror on herself. So Lovable is both a love story and a self-healing journey.
1:30.6	It's about leaving behind a sexless, lonely marriage, confronting general patterns,
1:35.6	unpacking childhood trauma, and redefining what it means to live and love authentically.
1:40.8	Amber opens up about the moment that she met someone new while still being married and the
1:45.7	shame and truth that she had to face because she had met her soulmate while being in this marriage.
1:50.6	How healing from addiction and emotional pain led her to her most honest and powerful self. So let's dive in.
1:58.0	Thank you so much for being here. I love getting connected through Vienna with anyone because I always know if Vienna connects me to somebody, they're a special human.
2:07.3	So I was like, yes, absolutely.
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