AMA: Fights Between Couples Sessions, The Cost Of Keeping the Peace, and Owning Your Needs - Jayson & Ellen - 406

Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 2 August 2022

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

“What are some pointers you’d offer someone who feels unmet in their emotional needs due to their husband’s avoidant emotionally unavailable tendencies?”

“What do you do in between counseling sessions when something even more hurtful has just been revealed?”

“In an avoidant-insecure partnership, is compromising simply a reframe to keep the peace, and am I denying my need for a healthy, working relationship?”

Our TRS Support Group is ripe with like-minded people doing their work, asking hard questions, practicing curiosity, taking accountability for how they show up, garnering compassion for their significant others, and offering moral support. Ellen and I regularly thumb through comments and answer questions here in our Ask Me Anything episodes over a cup of coffee.

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0:00.0	I want to be there for me and I want to be there for you.
0:02.6	Yeah.
0:03.6	And if I have to be there for you at the expense of me, that's win-lose.
0:07.6	Yeah.
0:08.6	That's the hallmark of insecurity. So, Hey and welcome back to the relationship school podcast. I'm Jason Gannis with my
0:35.3	Amazing wife Ellen. Hi welcome. Hello there. Thanks for being a subscriber and a listener, people.
0:42.8	Thanks for carrying.
0:45.6	Some of these, when Ellen and I just do kind of an
0:47.6	an ask-me- anything coffee date, we don't usually put that on YouTube,
0:52.1	but you know you can subscribe to
0:53.6	Jason Gattis on YouTube if you want to watch us talk back and forth.
0:57.6	Not this episode but other episodes where we're sitting side by side they're kind of fun.
1:01.8	Hey Dad I wanted to ask you a few questions about your book getting to zero.
1:06.6	Okay, bring it on.
1:07.6	I haven't read the book, but I was wondering what like ages do you think should read the book like kids
1:14.3	teens adults right that's a good question and teens is that like 12 to 18 or is that
1:20.8	like yeah I think it's best for adults yeah and a teenager if
1:27.8	they're in like pain here or they want to work through conflict with their
1:32.2	parents or their siblings or a girlfriend or
1:35.6	someone that they're close with, they could actually read it and get a ton out of it.
1:40.7	Yeah. Kids your age, I think you would get a little little I mean Lucian you love to read books so you're like plow through books like in a day like no problem like a 500 page book this kid will read in like an hour
1:52.1	So you're a great reader and you could read it,
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