Am I wrong for breaking up with my boyfriend on the spot because he turned my apartment into a nightclub behind my back?

That is the exact question this girl has asked the internet.

I am a 26-year-old girl and I broke up with my boyfriend who was 28 yesterday and my phone won't stop calling up.

I need some outside opinions because I'm starting to second guess myself.

For context, we've been dating for about a year. We don't live together. I have my own apartment

that I worked really hard to get. It's my quiet space. I work 12 hours shifts as a nurse,

so when I get home, I'm completely drained and I just want peace. My boyfriend lives with three roommates in a chaotic house, so we usually hang out at my place.

I gave him a spare key a few weeks ago, but we agreed it was strictly for emergencies.

Last weekend, I had a brutal overnight shift.

I came home at around 7am, completely exhausted.

I tried to open my front door, but it got

stuck. When I pushed harder, I realized it was stuck because someone was passed out on the floor

right inside my entryway. The smell of cheap alcohol and sweat hit me instantly. I walked in,

and my apartment was completely trashed. There were sticky spills on the floor,

empty bottles on all my counters and about 15 random people sleeping on my couch, my rugs and even

in my bathtub. I stormed into my bedroom and my boyfriend was dead asleep in my bed still

wearing his shoes. I woke him up and I was shaking. I was so mad. He told me to chill out and said he just

wanted to host his buddy's birthday party. He said his own place was too messy to host and he didn't ask me

first because he knew I would say no. Yeah, good reason for not asking somebody first. I didn't even yell.

I just told him to wake his friends up, get out of my apartment and leave my key on the kitchen counter. I told him we are completely done. He left, but since yesterday he's been texting me non-stop. He says I overreacted that nothing was broken, which is a lie, a lamp is shattered, and that I embarrassed him in front of his friends by kicking them out in the morning.

Even a couple of our friends messaged me on Instagram, calling me uptight and a toxic girlfriend.

I spent my entire day off deep cleaning my floors and washing my sheets.

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