Am I Undateable? w/ Khleo Thomas and Mandii B

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 13 April 2022

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Does finding the kind of relationship you want mean conforming to an ideal of what a romantic partner is “supposed to be”? What if you don’t want to conform? Does this mean you’re not cut out for love? To explore further, Shan sits down with both Mandii, from the “See, The Thing Is” and “WHOREible Decisions” Podcasts and Khleo Thomas from Disney’s “Holes”; two successful and fascinating individuals who have come to believe that they are undateable. Not because of any toxic traits, but because their version of life-long happiness is not in line with what society feeds us. Listen in on this conversation as Shan helps these guests figure out what’s broken.

Follow Shan Boodram on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shanboody

Buy Shan’s Book “The Game of Desire: 5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance and Getting What You Want” wherever you buy your books or audiobooks

Follow Mandii B on Instagram: www.instagram.com/fullcourtpumps

Listen to Mandii’s podcasts “Whoreible Decisions” and “So The Thing Is” wherever you are listening to this podcast

Follow Khleo on Instagram: www.instagram.com/khleothomas

Check out Khleo on Twitch: www.twitch.tv/khleothomas

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0:00.0	Statistically, it sounds like there would be a lot of people compatible with you.
0:04.0	I don't think so because normally what men want is hard for me.
0:08.8	You don't think that other people's top three.
0:10.8	No.
0:11.8	No.
0:12.8	My dating life is, uh, I can't even say complicated.
0:17.2	It's just I'm a complicated guy.
0:19.2	I am afraid.
0:20.2	I'm afraid of failing at it.
0:21.6	I'm afraid of failing at it for sure.
0:23.5	I'm afraid if I give it all and show you everything that I'll fail at it and then it's
0:28.0	gonna break apart anyway.
0:29.8	And this.
0:30.8	Oh, this?
0:31.8	This is the problem with monogamy.
0:34.2	So many of you feel like if you don't fit inside of this rigid cookie cutter frame of what
0:38.4	a romantic partnership is quote unquote supposed to be, then you're not cut out for love at
0:43.4	all.
0:44.4	And that's bullshit.
0:45.4	So we got to get into it.
0:46.8	Right after this.
1:05.8	What's up?
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