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The Virtual Couch

Am I the Narcissist? Exploring Narcissistic Traits and Tendencies (from the Waking Up to Narcissism podcast)

The Virtual Couch

Tony Overbay LMFT

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

5643 Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2021

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Tony introduces his latest podcast, "Waking Up to Narcissism." In this crossover episode, Tony shares that narcissistic tendencies or traits can come in many different forms and levels of severity. At the same time, as a mental health condition, there is currently only one diagnosis. Tony tackles the question of whether or not we use the label of narcissism too broadly, and if we spoke more about what narcissistic traits and tendencies looked like in our everyday lives, would more people be able to take ownership of their narcissistic tendencies, or behaviors?Tony refers to the article "5 Types of Narcissism and How to Recognize Each," by Courtney Telloian (medically reviewed by Jeffrey Ditzell, DO) from PsychCentral https://psychcentral.com/health/types-of-narcissism (https://psychcentral.com/health/types-of-narcissism).If you have questions or comments, or suggestions for a topic of a future episode or if you want to share your story or examples of gaslighting in your relationships, please send through the contact form at http://tonyoverbay.com (http://tonyoverbay.com)-Visit http://tonyoverbay.com/magnetic (http://tonyoverbay.com/magnetic) to learn more about Tony's Magnetic Marriage program, or visit http://tonyoverbay.com to take Tony's free parenting course, or to learn more about his best-selling book; or only recovery program "The Path Back." And please subscribe to "Waking Up to Narcissism," Tony's brand new podcast, which is part of The Virtual Couch podcast network.

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0:00.0

Hey, oh, oh, come on and take a seat on the virtual couch.

0:23.0

Hey, everybody.

0:25.7

Welcome to a special bonus episode of The Virtual Couch.

0:30.4

I'm your host, Tony Overbay, licensed marriage and family therapist and host of this podcast. But also, today we're going to do a little bit of a crossover.

0:33.9

And I'm going to share a complete episode of my newest podcast called Waking Up to

0:39.5

Narcissism. And I'm about, I think this is episode seven of waking up to narcissism. And

0:44.8

it's if you are interested at all in anything related to narcissistic personality disorder,

0:52.2

narcissistic tendencies, just narcissistic awareness.

0:55.2

If there's anybody in your family, rather directly or your boss or anybody at your church or

1:00.7

that sort of thing where you just feel like they have a difficult time taking ownership

1:04.9

of things where they may show up a little bit more immature and some of the conversations

1:08.9

that you have. The episode I'm going to share today just talks about how there is, when we think of the term narcissism, which it is a bit of

1:16.1

a buzzword, it has been for a few years now. There's a definition or a clinical diagnosis of

1:22.6

narcissism, this grandiose narcissist. And really the percentage or numbers of people that would fall into

1:29.2

that category are not very, not very big. And what we see instead are there's a lot of us that have

1:34.4

narcissistic tendencies, traits. I often refer on this virtual couch podcast to my own

1:39.5

narcissistic tendencies and traits and dustings. And sometimes people will write me and say,

1:44.0

hey, are you just kidding around? And I say, oh no, people will write me and say, hey, are you

1:44.6

just kidding around? And I say, oh, no, I, you know, we all start out in our lives as little

1:50.7

tiny narcissist by definition. And then the hope is that we grow from this self, self-centered

1:56.7

as a kid and grow into self-confident with the right modeling and that sort of thing. So I'm

2:01.9

airing an episode that I think will be pretty fascinating just in general. We're going to talk

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