How can you tell if you're being a jerk?

It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

And I know sometimes I wonder that about myself.

Oh, do you want us to let you know more often?

Well, sure, you can let me know, but sometimes I want to find out on my own.

And I know I tried to find out by going to the website, ultimate jerk. web.

That's the wrong website.

Yeah. Didn't find the answers I was looking for there. I bet you found something else, though. I did end up giving my credit card information. Still, though, I thought... All be jerky, huh? There has to be a better way to figure out if you're acting like a D-bag in a certain situation. Yeah, sometimes you got to know.

You have to.

And that's why we created this segment called, am I the jerk?

If you haven't heard it before, here's how it works.

You tell us about an argument or a weird situation you found yourself in recently and how you handled it in that moment.

And then we'll discuss and not only give our opinion, but we'll also ask our listeners to text in and tell us what they think if you were in the right or if you were in the wrong.

And by the end, hopefully we'll give everybody a little bit of peace of mind.

So who needs our help today?

His name is Tommy.

Tommy, you feel like a jerk today?

Yeah, a little bit. I do. Oh. That's not a good place to start, Tommy. That's why we're here. But it's all right. Maybe we'll get you to an apology or something. Yeah, tell us what happened. Okay, so I'm getting married next month. Aw, congr. What a jerk. Thank you. What a jerk. So we got this wedding coming up in a month, and my wife's just been working, like, really hard on the whole thing. I mean, you're soon to be wife. Don't jump the gun here. He's already calling her wife. I think that's so sweet. She may say no. Yeah, we've been together so long that, like, we call each other that already, so it's, like, a formality. But But anyway, so like, you know, she's been doing all the like booking caterers and DJ. And she's just been on top of everything. And like she just really knows what she's doing. And it's- Yeah. And she carries the entire mental and emotional load for your relationship. Sounds great. Wow. No wonder you marrying her.

I don't know. I don't know. But, you know, she knows more about this stuff than I do. And, like, you know, I'm helping out some, you know, this is an important day for her. Yeah, for sure. You don't sound like a jerk to me. I know. It does sound, you do sound nice. Yeah. All right. So what's the situation?

I'll tell you because she's kind of the one that's making me be a jerk.

Oh.

Yeah. What do you mean? She's a jerk enabler. Okay. Yeah. So she has this whole

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