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Today I've got five posts from our slash am I the jerk and I'm going to decide along with you

guys in the comments down below whether these people are in the right or the wrong.

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Am I the jerk for refusing to take off my engagement ring during a wedding?

I'm meant to be attending the wedding of Tilly and Peter next month.

They are friends of my fiancé, and we've hung out plenty of times over the past few years.

They got engaged around 18 months ago, and we got engaged three months ago.

My engagement ringstone is a light blue

sapphire. In photographs, however, it looks a lot darker, which is relevant. We met up with Tilly

and Peter last weekend, which incidentally was the first time seeing them in person since we got

engaged. When they asked to see the ring, Tilly noted that it was much lighter than the photos we'd shared.

Peter agreed.

And a little while later, after the conversation had turned to something else, Tilly asked

if we remembered that the bridesmaid's dress colour was a very pale blue.

My fiancé is a groomsman, so knew this, as he is wearing a matching tie. Peter said that they

were hoping that only the wedding party was going to wear that colour, which was included on the

advice. He said that having a ring in that shade was, quote, no excuse to be breaking the rules.

This was said humorously, so my fiance and I both laughed, and I assured them that I'm

most likely wearing something darker and not blue anyway. Tilly then said that Peter was talking

around the issue, and that I wouldn't be able to wear my engagement ring at their wedding

because it was too close to their shade of blue. She said that she'd already had to make sure a family member

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