When we were first married, we fully believed if we tied to church, all our money issues would be over.

By the third year married, we found ourselves sitting in credit counseling services.

I am in a wave of friends turning 30 this year, so a lot of big parties are happening.

I am terrified where this is headed.

Had a kid several years ago, and the relationship with dad did not work out.

He does not help with the now teenager and barely sees her unless she happens to be at his mother's house.

I racked up $30,000 worth of credit card debt, the grief of it ruined my relationship, and I collapsed.

My husband, brother-in-law, and I bought a house together.

Immediately, I am terrified. Am I the asshole for thinking

this way?

What's up, rich friends? Welcome back to another episode of Net Worth and Chill with me, your host,

Vivian 2,

aka Your Rich BFF and your favorite Wall Street Gurley.

I'm all about money transparency, and that's exactly what I preach about.

So you got to walk the walk to talk the talk, right?

I think every single person should be talking about money more.

And a lot of the feedback I've gotten from the besties

on what they want to hear about is that they feel awkward or like an asshole for wanting to

talk about a taboo topic like money. So today, we are flipping the script and I am going to be

answering if you are in fact the financial asshole. I asked for submissions for stories,

conundrums, and sticky situations all about money. Today, we're going to be going through those

submissions and I'm going to let you know if you are actually the bad guy when it comes to your

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