Am I The Financial A**hole? Cheating Fiancé Demands Half My House Profit

Networth and Chill with Your Rich BFF

Vivian Tu

News, Business, Careers, Business News, Entrepreneurship

4.4 • 1.6K Ratings

🗓️ 27 August 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Vivian returns with another explosive round of "Am I The Financial A-hole?" diving into listener submissions that range from relationship betrayals to family money drama. She dissects the messy intersection of love and money through stories of cheating fiancés and house profits, manipulative exes who rack up debt, and the complex dynamics of supporting aging parents while building your own wealth. From navigating split checks as a pregnant woman to confronting relatives who freeload off elderly grandparents, this episode explores the fine line between financial boundaries and family loyalty. Vivian unpacks why money silence breeds relationship resentment, revealing how avoiding financial conversations with partners, friends, and family creates the perfect storm for explosive conflicts. She delivers hard truths about recognizing financial manipulation, setting healthy money boundaries, and why your financial curiosity isn't shallow, it's essential for building relationships based on shared values and mutual respect rather than hidden agendas and unspoken expectations. Follow the podcast on Instagram and TikTok! Got a financial question you want answered in a future episode? Email us at [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	We were at the bar together and I decided to be nice by putting his drinks on my tab.
0:04.6	He accused me of emasculating him and making him look poor.
0:08.4	People were giving him their drink requests thinking he was paying.
0:11.6	The guy told the bartender to put it all on my tab and then left
0:15.9	and assumed I was rich enough to handle it.
0:21.3	Oh my God.
0:23.6	Rut Row.
0:28.3	What's up, rich friends, and welcome back to another episode of Not Worth and Chill with me,
0:36.7	your host, Vivian 2,
0:38.2	aka your HBFF and your favorite Wall Street Gurley. I'm back with round two of Am I the A-Hole
0:44.8	Finance Edition. If you miss the first episode, here's the deal. I flip the script on those
0:49.9	classic Am I the A-Hole dilemma posts, but we're talking cold hard cash instead of just
0:55.6	life drama. You absolutely crushed it with your submissions last time. Seriously, some of you
1:00.4	are living in financial soap operas. So I put out another bat signal for your wildest money
1:06.3	stories, sticky financial situations, and those cringe-worthy conundrums that keep you up at night
1:11.8	wondering if you're the villain in your own story. And let me tell you, the BFFs did not disappoint.
1:18.2	I have so much juicy content that I could probably do 10 episodes just from this batch alone.
1:23.6	Today I'm diving into this fresh collection of financial chaos to answer the ultimate question,
1:28.7	are you actually being a financial a-hole or are you totally in the clear?
1:33.3	Some of these stories had me genuinely shook, and I have a feeling you're going to have some strong opinions too.
1:39.1	So let's get into it.
1:40.7	Support for this show comes from Lufthansa.
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