Well, a crowd fan favorite segment here. We're going to go back now to Reddit's MI The A-hole

Forum where people present their moral quandaries, their gripes, their disputes with other people

in their lives and they want to know are they the A-hole or is somebody else the A-hole?

And oftentimes the advice they get from Reddit in this regard is very, very bad, which is why I

feel like I need to come in here and save the day and give the official proclamation. So we'll

start with this. First what says my husband and then in parentheses is Asian. My husband

Asian and I American welcomed our first born four weeks ago. The baby is healthy, thank God,

but I'm exhausted. My husband's family had been pressureing us to visit to meet the baby. Yesterday

I was surprised to find them standing on the porch. I was embarrassed and felt like I wasn't ready

for visitors because the house was a NPSP store. A mess. Later I asked my husband if we should order

takeout for dinner. He said no because his parents would find this rude and unwelcoming. He suggested

that I go inside the kitchen and prepare something. I said fine, then went and made some mac and

cheese. Once I served the family, my husband's mom asked if I really found it appropriate to serve

her in the family mac and cheese. I hate macaroni and cheese. We had an argument and they decided to go

home. My husband said that deciding to serve as family mac and cheese was more offensive than serving

them nothing at all. MI The A-hole, what's wrong with mac and cheese? Wow, okay.

MI The A-hole, okay. So this husband, here's the note, guys.

He's going to help him. I got a note, Dad.

You want to give your wife at least a week's notice. If you're given her a day, it's going to be a problem.

But they're here right now. The house is a mess. You just, you can't do that. You cannot do that.

If you want to have a happy marriage, you just cannot do things like that. Then again, it's easy for

me to say because I'm never really tempted to invite guests over for dinner in the first place.

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