Hey everyone, welcome back to Teenage with Therapy. I'm Gayao. I'm Thomas. I'm Kayla.

Welcome back to the podcast. Now it's summer. Do you have your summer fling or are you

worried that a summer fling will turn into a boyfriend or girlfriend or a significant

other in general? But maybe you're not worried about that because if you're like some of us,

maybe you just self-sabotage when it comes to love and that's the reason summer flings

will always be summer flings and nothing more. Who do you think here does that out of

all of us? Who's most likely to do that? Guess in the comments down below. Did you get

it right? Who is it? I'll go second place. Yeah, for those not watching the video, I have

my enraged because I do self-sabotage. It's something I don't like to talk about. Something

that I don't even realize I do until several months or even maybe a year after I've already

done the sabotaging. And I'm like, wait, I did self-sabotage and I didn't even realize it.

And what ways? I think that as soon as I'm just someone who's expecting the worst, when

it comes to relationships and romance, I haven't had the greatest experiences. I have a lot

of trauma from, you know, just past relationships and so every time I try and get into a new

one, I'm immediately, I have my guard up and I'm just looking for the first sign and chance

for me to be like, oh, this isn't going to work out. This person is not for me. This person,

this is something wrong. I can't be with them anymore. And I don't really give them a chance.

Not that I don't give them a chance. I just, I'm a lot less understanding than I think most

other people would be just because I don't want to get hurt. I'm trying to save myself

from getting hurt. So as soon as they do something that remotely is hurtful, buy. There

goes, I'm ghosting them. Not, I don't ghost them. I just like, I just end things. I just

end things in not a great way. And then we never talk to each other and yeah. But isn't

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