Am I Playing Into The Generational Curse? // Hump Day Q&A

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

XO Marriage

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships

4.8 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 21 February 2024

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: What is your advice for changing my tone toward my spouse when it's not something I'm accustomed to, What do I do? ————— Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1 Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	You know what time it is sweetie? It's Hump Day Q&A time. Hump Day Q&A time.
0:10.0	Hump Day Q&A. Hump Day Q&A.
0:14.0	Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast,
0:17.0	Hump Day Q&A.
0:19.0	We love answering your questions,
0:20.0	so every Wednesday,
0:22.0	we're dropping a special podcast episode focused on
0:24.3	one of your questions. You can submit your own marriage related question online
0:28.6	at naked marriage podcast.com or by sending us a message on Instagram at Dave and Ashley Willis.
0:35.0	We've got a great question today, so let's dive in.
0:38.0	Here's the question for today.
0:40.0	Hope you guys are ready.
0:41.0	It says, what is your advice to help me change my voice tone toward my husband?
0:47.1	His mom was amazingly happy all the time.
0:50.1	My mom was not.
0:51.7	So my example of how to sound like I want to without necessarily feeling that way is hard for me.
0:57.2	I guess I'm not a good actress and I have a hard time sounding happy.
1:01.9	All right, so here's the question, you know, put it out there, it's like husband grew up with,
1:06.0	you know, a mom who talked one way, a wife grew up with the mom who talked the other way,
1:09.3	so the husband has this expectation that this is how, you know, a wife, the tone that a wife's supposed to have, the
1:16.0	wife's like, well that's not me, that's not what I'm used to.
1:19.3	When I do things my way, it offends him and hurts his feelings, but when I'm not doing things my way I feel like I'm
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