Hi, Stair. I'm 41 years old and I'm calling with a personally heart-wrenching case of should I stay or should I go.

In regard to a man I've been seeing for almost two years, he and I met on a sort of casual dating app and went into it very casually.

I learned that he is married and that he and his wife were no longer sexual or romantic in that way,

but they are living together, share a bed. They co-parent an

eight-year-old boy, just like I do with my ex-husband, with whom I do not share. Not bad. And she is

very open and encouraging of all of this. And never in one million years would I have seen myself

making my way into this kind of a dynamic.

But this gentleman and I have very strong feelings for each other and he and I go on dates every week to two weeks and they're absolutely incredible from our

chemistry as friends and humans not to mention that I'm having the best sex of my life like

full stop and he is emotionally secure and available to me in a way that I've frankly

never had in 41 years. I also have been stuck in these endless questions all the time because there's a big part of me that

does love being single. Like when I first got divorced, I'll never forget that feeling of I can do

what I want. I can be who I want to be. And yet, I crave that idea of stability in marriage again and it's this constant

push and pull and I don't even know if I would want to be married to him and yet it does not

prevent some real pain some real pain that I feel around feeling like

I'm just jealous, you know, of he and his wife or partner who is lovely.

I would just so, so appreciate and love the chance to talk through this with you.

So thank you so much for listening.

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