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Hello and welcome back to Oversharing.

I'm Jordana Abraham.

And I am Dr. Naomi Bernstein. How's it going? How is your

weekend? I know you were in Charleston. Yeah, so much to talk about. Talk about Charleston. You had a

birthday. Your birthday is right before Maddie's birthday. You guys were almost birthday twins. Almost. So close.

Missed it by a day. Yeah, Charleston was great. It was quick in and out. It was fun. We went to a party

for my, for Jeff's friend's 50th. And I, we didn't know anyone there except for like literally nobody um but it was really fun

sometimes you know there was like a dance party at the end that's kind of my jam so I was like

feeling like I was one of the girls without actually knowing anybody and it's like a good bonding

it's like we're all kind of now I feel like we have a bond with all these people that I never met and we didn't have to actually talk to all of them. We just bonded through our boogie. You're going to keep in touch? We boogie bonded. No. Probably not. You're like absolutely not. Absolutely not. Absolutely not. It was lovely for what I'm saying.

No, it's just, it's nice when you have a long distance friend and they've created a new life to like know their people, you know.

Yeah.

No, it's that's, that's nice.

And also, I mean, impressive for you because I do feel like that's like a little bit of

my worst nightmare, like going into a huge

social event where I don't know anyone and then like resisting the urge to kind of just like

retreat into like hibernate in the corner probably just talk to Jeff a lot or be on your phone

or really because again especially for an event like this where it's like it's like it's not like you move to a new town and these are all the new people in town like you're probably not going to see these people again right um and it's just it's a lot to be like they all know each other yes totally i'm impressed thank you impressed. Thank you. Yeah, I felt proud of myself. I do think like I said, you know, obviously we're chatting, but the idea of just like dancing together is like I'm in the mix, but like I don't have to make small talk all night long. So yeah, there's a temptation to be like, I'm never going to see you again. I don't really

care what you think about me. So I'm just going to be like antisocial in the corner. Right.

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