Am I Done? Did I Blow My Chances With Her? Should I Walk Away?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 5 May 2026
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow to know if you blew your chances with a woman & should walk away.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a new viewer. He met a girl a few months back who seemed interested. They hung out a few times, but then she told him that his being younger was a deal breaker. She also canceled a date they had planned. However, he’s continued texting and trying to get her out on dates, but she’s always busy and has a logical sounding excuses. He wonders if he blew it and should just walk away.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.5 | newsletter is going to be. Am I done? Did I blow my chances whether should I walk away? |
| 0:12.5 | So this particular email is from a viewer who he's new, relatively new. I think he said he's been |
| 0:18.0 | through 3% man one time so far. |
| 0:25.3 | So I think he found out about me when he's in the middle of this situation like a lot of guys do. |
| 0:30.9 | So we met a girl like beginning of the year around, I think it was around New Year's as a matter of fact. |
| 0:32.3 | She seemed interested. |
| 0:33.9 | They hung out a few times. |
| 0:36.1 | I think there's like a five year age gap. |
| 0:38.0 | She's like four or five years older than him. |
| 0:43.8 | And he was texting too much. And so after going through the book, you kind of realized some of the mistakes he made. Then she canceled a date. But for the last couple months, he's still |
| 0:49.4 | occasionally texting her trying to get her out on dates and it's not really going anywhere so |
| 0:55.7 | let's go through his email because he's wondering if it's just he's basically |
| 0:59.7 | pissing in the wind at this point and wasting his time remember the quickest way |
| 1:04.3 | to get somebody else's attention is to remove your attention let's remember |
| 1:10.2 | that the quickest way to get somebody else's attention is to remove yours. |
| 1:13.6 | So if somebody's too busy, because as the book says, you're going to reach out twice, |
| 1:18.6 | ask her out, and at both times, all she gives is a flaky response, |
| 1:23.6 | won't tell you when she's available or says she's unsure, then you don't ask anymore. |
| 1:29.0 | And even if she continues reaching out after that, let her be the one to bring up getting together. |
| 1:35.6 | Because sometimes there's another guy they're talking to. |
| 1:37.5 | Maybe they're still talking to the ex, unbeknownst to you. |
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