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Am I Allowed To Copy Someone's Engagement Idea?

Oversharing

Betches

Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 5 August 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

This week’s episode is extra special because Dr. Naomi is live in NYC and she and Jordana discuss how it's important to embrace your childlike wonder and not become jaded by the world around you. In the Overshare, a listener opens up about losing her dad and now dealing with a boundary-blind mom who won’t stop rehashing the trauma—despite the fact that she was there for every second of it. Then, a freshly engaged Betch writes in with a chic dilemma: her friend is not on board with her dream Paris engagement shoot and she needs a Betchicist ruling ASAP. Dr. Naomi pens an intention for a woman navigating the nightmare that is a long-distance relationship—and gets real about her own experience being in an LDR in her twenties. Plus, in this week’s Triggered segment, one listener is fuming after her beau’s kids totally skip the thank-you's for her thoughtful gifts and another is spiraling after seeing her ex pop up in a wholesome family photo, and the hosts give each a Triggered score. Subscribe to Oversharing on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OversharingPod   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

A quick note before we get into the episode, Oversharing is a podcast for entertainment purposes only.

0:08.3

It is not a medical podcast and does not constitute medical or psychological advice.

0:12.6

Always seek the advice of your physician or mental health professional.

0:16.0

Hello and welcome back to Oversharing.

0:18.6

I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:19.7

And I am Dr. Naomi Bernstein. So great to be back

0:23.4

in person. We do, we probably do one in person recording a year, a year when you're in town.

0:28.7

This is it. Very exciting. Welcome to, welcome back to New York. Yeah. This is really, I love being here.

0:35.4

I love having this conversation in real life. Manhattan's awesome. My walk to the office, I felt very. I feel like you don't like Manhattan. I like it for like two days. That's fair. Yeah. I like it and then I like to leave. Leave, yeah. But I feel almost like, it's moving. It's always, you know, like, you talk you talk about like child's mind. Like, it's so funny. I remember I was here a couple of years ago and you know that fountain in LaGuardia and it's like all the colors. And there was this little girl there and she was just so excited about the fountain. And she was trying to get her parents to look at the fountain and

1:11.9

they were kind of like, okay, like you're annoying. It was just this very, that's how I sometimes

1:18.4

feel when I come to New York. I'm like, there's so much stimulation and all these cool people and

1:23.9

everybody's like attractive and stylish and weird and right there's just so much that

1:29.2

I have this like child mind yeah people like you are like dude no it's because you're here for two

1:34.8

days and you're not like jaded and it's actually quite it's like you're a child here it's very cute

1:39.4

i mean i've told this story on this podcast before but like when you were here i don't know it was

1:43.2

last year two years ago and we were walking to her hotel, which was like on the Upper West Side, we're walking through Times Square. And you are like taking everyone's flyer. You were like interacting with every crazy person on the street trying to talk to you. And I'm like, you are, you're in danger. Stop touching that.

2:01.8

Right.

2:02.2

No, but it's nice.

2:03.1

Like I'm saying, it turns you into me.

2:05.9

I mean, I don't live here anymore than the suburbs, but I'm living here 10 years, I'm just like a very nasty bitch.

2:12.7

Yeah. So.

2:13.0

No.

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