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Um, okay, wait, there's one. One other topic I wanted to ask you about, because I was curious in your lifetime if this has happened to you. Because I had this aha moment a couple, probably a couple years. Actually, yes, a couple years ago at my wedding. Um, so a couple weeks ago, I was reading a story, Jenna Bush and Hoda from the Today Show.

We're talking about, you know, they're good friends outside of the show and they co-host together. But Jenna said, I want, Hoda, I have to apologize to you because when your daughter was sick, I realized I was a terrible friend. I didn't really check up on you. I didn't bring you anything. I really just, you know, I don't know. I was busy in my own life and I didn't think about you.

I was a bad friend.

And... you anything. I really just, you know, I don't know. I was busy in my own life and I didn't think about you. I was a bad friend. And I wondered if you've ever felt in your life that you're

a bad friend because I realized a couple years ago like I'm a bad friend. I think I'm a better

friend now. I'm becoming a better friend. But I realized I was a really bad

friend to almost all of my friends. Oh my gosh. I mean, it's hard for me to answer that because

I got so messed up by having like a best friend that I would do anything for and that friend

betrayal in relationship ending. So it's,

I have a lot of friendships, but they're not like super close like that one was where you just

completely, you know, it's like your sister. So I'm, it's hard to say, but I definitely think

I'm in my friendships more the selfish friend than,

like the other one is more the giver.

Like I don't really, I don't think to send messages and, you know, be like, happy Mother's Day

or if you're sick, can I drop some stuff by the house, you know, initiating actions to be a good friend?

I feel like I don't really do as much, you know, like, or like being friends with the other moms that, you know, our kids go to school together.

And I'll ask them if they can give one of the girls a ride home if I have something else that I can't do.

And they almost never asked me to give their kids rides home.

So I feel like I'm more the taker.

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