Always the Option, Friends w/ Benefits Turns Serious, Money Talk Breakup, & Jayda Cheaves Speaks
Dear Tisia
Relationship Restored
5.0 • 866 Ratings
🗓️ 29 September 2025
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
This week’s Dear Tisia is about being honest with yourself, setting boundaries, and asking the hard questions in love.
💌 First, a woman is tired of being the “option” instead of the priority — even though she’s attractive, intentional, and ready for love. Why do men treat her like a backup plan?
🔥 Next, a friends-with-benefits situation gets messy when he catches feelings after a year — but she’s still firmly in the casual lane. Can it end respectfully, or does she need to walk away?
💔 And one caller’s relationship unraveled after a conversation about money and timelines. Was she asking too much — or was he avoiding accountability?
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🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, influencer Jayda Cheaves admits she’s a boss in business but struggles to apply that same power in love. Why do so many strong women stay in relationships that don’t serve them?
👇 Join the conversation in the comments — which story hit you hardest?
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | The quickest way to get a man to want to be with you is to tell him that you don't want to be with, okay? |
| 0:06.7 | This is not, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. |
| 0:08.8 | He wants to conquer you, okay? |
| 0:10.9 | And that is my baseline opinion. |
| 0:13.4 | The quickest way, I've seen it with my own two eyes, okay, all of my friends who don't want to be mothers who don't want to be married who are not looking for |
| 0:22.3 | anything serious and actually don't desire long-tone partnership they attract men who meet them |
| 0:28.3 | and they think it's cute okay they're like wow no pressure when i don't got to commit no pressure |
| 0:34.9 | and they fall in love and then they want to conquer them. |
| 0:39.3 | This is a textbook case of a man who wants to conquer you. |
| 0:44.7 | If you ever want to get a man to be into you, okay? |
| 0:47.8 | Act unbothered, act like you don't want a commitment. |
| 0:50.4 | That is the quickest way to get a man to commit to you. |
| 0:52.3 | I'm telling you because every man wants to conquer you. The more that you oppose and you're emotionally detached, |
| 0:59.9 | that is our superpower. I'm telling you, a woman who is emotionally detached is a dangerous woman. |
| 1:07.2 | She's a bad mother. Okay. She is somebody who is in control of herself. |
| 1:11.6 | So now you got this man where this woman is like, |
| 1:14.6 | I'm good off you. |
| 1:15.6 | The sex is cool. |
| 1:16.6 | We can roll around here and there, but I'm cool. |
| 1:19.6 | This man is enticed. |
| 1:21.6 | He's enthrall- like, it's a challenge now. |
| 1:23.6 | That is why he wants to lock you down. |
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