Ally Lewber Talks Breaking the Cycle, Boundaries & the Bravo Blogger
Scheananigans with Scheana Shay
Dear Media
3.0 • 8.8K Ratings
🗓️ 15 May 2026
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
This week, Scheana is joined by astrologer, reality TV personality, and fellow cat mom Ally Lewber. The two unpack Ally’s experience filming Netflix’s “Perfect Match” — from the surprising item production confiscated and potential match Jimmy’s “glow-up bangs,” to sharing her most intimate moments on camera and why she's hesitant to consider doing a dating show again.
They also dive into the complicated reality of supporting friends caught in toxic relationship cycles, using the recent SLOMW fallout between Taylor Frankie Paul and Mikayla Matthews as a jumping-off point for a surprisingly raw and emotional conversation about boundaries, enabling, and what actually helps someone leave for good. Ally opens up about why she’s now grateful certain moments from her past relationship played out so publicly, the support system that helped her through it, and her honest reaction to seeing headlines about her ex’s baby news.
Elsewhere, Scheana and Ally debate open relationships vs. throuples, whether they’d rather know WHEN or HOW they die, and why Brock once referred to Ally as a “Scientologist to the stars.” Plus, Scheana is not here for the Bravo blogger slander — in fact, she’s giving them their flowers this week. Tune in to find out why!
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a Dear Media production. |
| 0:14.0 | From Vanderpump rules to motherhood and everywhere in between. |
| 0:19.1 | Warm up the kettle. It's time to spill some tea. |
| 0:22.6 | Let's get into some shenanigans with Sheena Shea. |
| 0:27.2 | Because we're good as good. |
| 0:31.0 | Because we're good as good. |
| 0:34.9 | Because we're good as good. |
| 0:39.3 | I can't know how you we're good. I can glue nails, eyelashes. |
| 0:43.3 | You can do it all. |
| 0:44.3 | No, it was so annoying. |
| 0:45.3 | So like, they're so dope, right? |
| 0:47.3 | The cat eye. |
| 0:48.3 | Yeah, they're cute. |
| 0:49.3 | I do love the cat eyes. |
| 0:50.3 | You know, I don't know how you do anything with those. |
| 0:51.3 | I play guitar, so I couldn't. |
| 0:53.3 | But, like, they're so cute. Yeah. And I like the color. But I love cats. I'm so sad. I didn't get to sit with you for that. I know it was the best. No, literally, I just got these done the day before my birthday. Oh my God, get this. So both of my thumbs broke and I had to go back in. |
| 1:12.8 | When you go to the nail salon, if you put chat GPT on just like live recording, it'll translate everything for you. |
| 1:20.3 | Shut up. |
| 1:21.1 | Yeah. Get this. |
| 1:22.4 | Oh, my. |
| 1:23.2 | As I go in to get these two fixed, the woman who did them wasn't there that day, the ladies were talking mad shit about her. You're kidding. No, they were like, what is this? It's like concrete under. It's so thick, but then it's so thin and they break and they this and that and da-da-da-da-da-da. Then they start talking about that I was a good tipper. And they were like, yeah, last time, like she left $ $20. If everyone left $20, da, da, da, da, da. But get this. The time before that, the one who did a bad job on my nails. Yeah. She was like, this woman, she's rich, but she doesn't pay a lot. And I'm like, bitch. I pay over 20% always. I am dead. I know what my friends tip when they go in. |
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