Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

shy away from challenging topics to help you share God's grace, truth, and love

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today. Thank you for downloading the focus on the family marriage podcast. You

can find more relationship insights at focusonthefamily.com slash marriage

podcast. Well I've shared before on this podcast about my wife Dina and I and how

different we are when it comes to money. We're similar in many regards we both

like to pinch the pennies but we're similar also in the regard that we

sometimes spend and we've had a few exceptions to the you know what if it's

like a hundred bucks or more I'm gonna tell you about it. There was a moment

when I kind of impulsively bought something a big purchase and I came home and I

said I just smiled and looked kind of sheepishly at her and said sorry but I

bought something today and it cost a lot more than I thought and I quickly

followed it up with but of course we bought that really expensive pots and

panset for you so I sort of felt empowered to do that and it was actually all

good she was fine we trust each other and we don't make exceptions very often

like that so I'm John Fuller and I'm joining the studio today by Aaron Smalley

and we're featuring Aaron Solo this month right now we're gonna return to a

conversation that Jim Daley had with Jeff and Shanti Feldhahn they are

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