All Our Dates Are at His House — Should I Be Worried?
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 1 June 2026
⏱️ 57 minutes
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Summary
Happy anniversary to us — we're recording this one from Miami in the hotel where we took our first trip together five years ago. Jake planned the whole thing, and we almost missed the flight (not our fault!). We get into the debate that started at the airport: are you still on your parents' phone plan in your 30s? Four listener questions this week: the guy who followed you on Instagram two years after you told him you weren't a match, being 25 and single while all your friends pair off, comparing your engagement timeline to an acquaintance who just got engaged after three months, and the guy who says money is tight and all your dates are at his house — hookup or just broke?
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys, welcome back to co-hosts for Life. I'm Alana. Oh, I'm not supposed to do the intro like this. He hates when I make him say I'm Jake. But I'm not going to say he's Jake when he hasn't spoken yet. What do you mean? We do this all the time. Well, I'm sorry. It's okay. I didn't have a soft intro plan. I forgive you. |
| 0:21.6 | Thank you. |
| 0:24.5 | That's law of marriage and compromise, you guys. |
| 0:26.2 | So he's Jake. |
| 0:27.0 | I'm Jake. |
| 0:27.4 | What's up? I'm Alana. |
| 0:28.4 | Welcome back to Co-O-S for Life. |
| 0:29.8 | This is the weekly Monday episode of seeing other people where we update you guys on what's |
| 0:33.3 | going on in our lives, in our marriage, what happened this week. |
| 0:35.9 | We answer listener questions. Sometimes we debate really hot topics like we're going to today about whether or not you |
| 0:42.7 | should still be on your parents, whether or not you should still be on your parents' phone |
| 0:47.2 | plan when you're in your 30s and married to someone. I'm just curious if people are. |
| 0:52.0 | Yeah, we got to... I think most are. We got to post about this and get some opinions. But we are recording and bringing the pod to you from our surprise. Like, do you think Brad has his own phone plan. Why don't you text him? I will. Do it right now. I'll hold the mic. No, no, the phone's over there. I'll do it after. |
| 1:11.5 | All right. |
| 1:12.3 | He can respond in the group if he still listens. |
| 1:14.4 | True, true. |
| 1:15.4 | We are recording from the scene of our second annual surprise anniversary trip, which we |
| 1:22.6 | will tell you guys all about. |
| 1:24.3 | I just woke up from a little post-lay-by-the the pool nap, and so I'm a little out of it, |
| 1:30.9 | but it's going to be a great episode before we get into it. Quick ad break, friendly reminder, |
| 1:35.5 | please listen to the ads. Otherwise, we don't get paid. Whether you're going through a breakup, |
| 1:40.0 | feeling stuck in patterns you can't seem to break, or just carrying stress and overwhelm all the time. |
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